I never had many girlfriends growing up. I always surrounded myself around older women in my family, and the few female friends that I did eventually connect with were all older than me. I found it interesting that they all had similar stories and experiences to share of the whole black love experience. It wasn't until I myself began approaching the big 3-0, did I began to finally connect the dots. All those conversations and the exchange of golden rules of thumb in the dating game that rolled over into the marital "game" so to speak finally came full circle. It's like a light finally came on and it dawned on me...men really are from a whole other planet, but they are really not that complicated. And I thought..."hey I need to write a book about this stuff." So my story began. It is my contribution to reality TV at it's finest...the only difference is it's in black and white!