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The Curse of the Capable

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Discover what achievers all over the world are realizing.

The storyyou created about yourself early in life, which is part fiction, ishaving a dramatic impact on your present lifestyle--how you think andlive.


The assumption that all capable people in our culture havepeace of mind and are satisfied with their life course is commonplace.Is this notion true? Not always. In fact millions have fallen prey to abelief system that says appearance and status provide the golden roadto love and respect. In an attempt to perfect themselves, they arehiding their self doubt through constant achievement at the cost oflosing balance and well-being.

Suffering from being overwhelmedemotionally and physically, exhausted and fatigued, often with thehealth complications of being overweight; they have felt deeplydisappointed.

The Curse of the Capable describes how a biased viewof yourself can lead to a fragile sense of self, addictive thinking andbehavior, and a seemingly mysterious downward spiral that the majorityof people can’t see or untangle.  

Foreword by Phil Simms, SuperbowlMVP, NFL Sports Analyst, Former New York Giant

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What people are saying about this ground-breaking book:

“I don’t cry easily but I couldn’t hold back the tears as I read about all the people who have struggled with the Curse and never known the way out. After seeing several psychiatrists’, trying different meds and never feeling better I had lost hope. Then somehow I joined the group and the understanding and relief began slowly and has never stopped.  The book reminds me of how compulsive achievement was for me, and how breaking free has given me the satisfaction in my life that has always been missing. You always say empathy is the key to success, it took my legal mind several months to believe you and I think you have given the reader many examples to make a most convincing case that without knowing how to enter the world of others we are lost in space.” ~ Rebecca S., Attorney


“Success at all costs is really not success at all and often leaves communities, families and lives in its vast depleted wake. If you have lived as a depleted high achiever, you probably know this already.  But the BIG question is… what do you do about it? The Curse is a trap with no easy way out…until now!  Dr. Ciaramicoli and Coach Mollenhauer have put together a deeply provocative game plan for true success like nothing I have seen before.  In each stage you’ll discover insight, touching examples and juicy questions that reveal the core dynamics of “the curse”. Understand them so you can PLAY the games of your life again with joy, resiliency and full self-expression, and win. ~ Coach Dave Buck, CEO CoachVille.com


“My only regret in reading The Curse of the Capable Dr. C is that you didn’t write it ten years ago. Today I am mostly free of the obsessive drive to succeed at all costs but if I had known years ago what stages I needed to understand to make myself comfortable in my own skin I could have saved my marriage and been a better father.  I hope every driven person who is misdirected to obtain love reads your book, the journal questions are challenging and they make you very thoughtful about what motivates your behavior. What a great compliment to our group experience. The stories are very moving and of course I recognized some of the people including myself. As I read through I felt hopeful for myself and all those like me who are capable but could never find the real key to success”      

~ Frank M., Owner of Construction Company


“Being a high-achiever doesn't mean squat if you're not healthy. Moreover, the healthier you are, the more you achieve. This book is a wakeup call and the antidote for those of us that are consumed by the fast pace of today's world. But it won't slow you down. In fact, it'll put you on a fast train to the ultimate in well-being---complete health and substantial wealth. ~ Michael Port, New York Times Bestselling Author of “The Think Big Manifesto”


“As I read through the book, I also realized again how thankful I am and how blessed I am to be one of your patients. The stories are so powerful and of course as a group member I have personally witnessed the transformation of people, like myself, from being cursed to being free to live to our true potential. I wish that all those who have been trying so hard all their lives and yet never feeling complete would read and study the four stages outlined in your new book. I think if everyone would read my favorite chapter “The Spiritual Learner” we could bring about harmony in our world. Thank you for your patience and wisdom and for understanding what no one seemed to grasp in all my efforts to feel more fulfilled.”

~ Linda M. Project Manager


“Understanding who you are becomes paramount to taking care of yourself. Making lifestyle choices begin with self- awareness, the story you tell about your life and how you are in the world. If this story is not supportive, it gives rise to Performance Addiction and a spectrum of unhealthy lifestyle choices which lead to the problems we see every day. This book, The Curse of the Capable enables people to gain insight into this not well explored or explained cycle of personal destruction that can occur even amongst the most accomplished. It is a great book to read if you want to live a balanced and healthy lifestyle, successfully. ~ Dr. Suzanne Steinbaum D.O SRSHEART.COM Director, Women and Heart Disease Heart and Vascular Institute Lenox Hill Hospital, New York

“As I read The Curse of the Capable I thought of the people I’ve known and others I haven’t known that haven’t been as fortunate as I and others in group.   I thought of the star athlete you and I know who took her own life after a sports loss and how it might have been for her had someone like you been in her life. As I read through each of the 4 stages my heart swelled after each story and burst after each success which I know personally. I wanted to say this - You are a blessing Dr. C.  A blessing for Anthony and me, Gina and the countless other lives you’ve touched.   Nothing in life could ever compare to the significance of what you’ve done and continue to do for others – not a pro baseball contract, not running 50 marathons, not even a doctorate degree or writing a book or anything else for that matter could EVER compare. This book is your best ever! ~ John H. Northeast Sales Manager


“This important book shows how the quest for impressive achievements can lead many down the path to unhappiness and self-destruction.  This book is a must read for those wanting a better understanding of the human potential for self-peace and happiness that is obtainable by all.  After all, our physical health is dependent on many factors, including our intimate and caring relationship with others and our mastery over our competitive drives that could sabotage those relationships.” ~ Joel Fuhrman, MD. Author, Eat to Live and Eat for Health, Family Physician, And Nutritional Researcher. 


What a good book! At first I wondered why I should care about all the dysfunctional stories illustrated from Dr. C’s client experiences. Then I saw the pattern of the Curse that all of us today experience. Taking off my own mask, I found words that explain the journey and pearls of wisdomthat will help me improve my own healthy, high achieving life. There are great insights in this book that are worthy for reflection. Read it; you will be encouraged and freed. ~ Paul J. Hindelang, President, Results-Systems Corporation


“I drove my business to the top, working 80 hour weeks, traveling frequently and when I finally arrived I told my partner I felt Cursed. Why? No inner peace and just more to do every day, not at all like I imagined. I neglected my wife and children, all the while thinking we would all be happy once I was successful, had loads of money and a bigger house. Well, Dr. C, your book and your work has proven I, like many others, have been living according to a myth that drives each of us into the ground. I am proud to be one of the stories in your new book, proud because I am an example of someone who was lost and now who has learned the skills to be on the road to peace of mind. Your book, like your groups, requires hard work, nothing achievers will balk at but it is a different kind of work.  It is work for the soul and the heart. Something I knew little about. Everyone will benefit from this book that makes the commitment to open up and learn. Congratulations!” ~ Tom K., Retired CEO


The Curse of the Capable unveils the mystery of why capable people sometimes choose to live beyond the edge of their own health and well-being.  In the stories of the Capable and through the accompanying reflective and active exercises in this book, we are empowered to glimpse our own fervent desire for a more vital life, to sharpen our budding insights, and to write a new chapter in the story of our personal and professional strivings. I can think of no better way to wake-up-into the life you’ve already worked so hard to build than to read and act on the wisdom you’ll find in this book.” ~ Catherine Pastille MA, MBA, Ph.D. Business Administration President, The Hope Research Center, Inc. Smithfield, RI


“The insights in Dr. Ciaramicoli’s book Performance Addiction were profound in terms of corporate success. Now, with his new book, he has captured the essence of what drives us toward success at all costs. Many in the corporate world feel cursed and I, as a senior manager, have benefited greatly by reading and understanding the lives of Dr. Ciaramicoli’s clients as they work toward more complete health. Each story seems to convey a new way of succeeding in a stressful environment, especially as he describes the challenges we must all negotiate for solid self worth. I have recommended “The Curse of the Capable” to all my employees and will continue to learn from re-reading its content. This book goes far beyond the typical self help book to provide real ways of feeling balanced while operating on a very high level” ~ Richard Werner, Senior Director, Data Center Management,  Comcast Headquarters, Philadelphia.


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